How to Spot And Help Troubled Teens: A Guide for the New Year

It's just a few hours before the New Year will be greeted with a bang by many nations all over the world. We have our own way of welcoming it and in the Philippines, many families are busy preparing delicious dishes that would be shared with the family. As for myself, I enjoy the coming of the New Year because it is time to reflect on my past actions, my failures, my downfalls, my achievements, and my happiness. It is also a time for me to plan for the future.

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Troubled teens who do not get the help that they need will not grow into happy successful adults. The first step in getting help for your child is to recognize the signs of a troubled teen. Below are some of the most common signs of a troubled teen:

Rebellious Behavior

It is normal for teenagers to challenge their parents' authority. However, if your teen decides that he or she does not want to do anything that you say, then that is a sign that he or she is troubled. Troubled teens also lie about the places that they go to and who they see.

Sleeping More Than Usual

This is a sign that many parents miss. Excessive sleeping is often a sign of depression. It could also be a sign of alcoholism or drug abuse. Furthermore, troubled teens may insist on being alone all of the time.

Abnormal Sleeping Habits

Extreme Mood Swings

The hormonal changes that occur during the teenage years often cause mood swings. However, if your teen is moody all of the time, then he or she could be troubled. Depression, bipolar disorder, drug abuse, and alcohol abuse are just a few of the many problems that can cause mood swings.

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Poor Grades

If your teen normally makes good grades and all of a sudden his or her grades start dropping, then that could possibly indicate a problem. Teens who are experimenting with drugs and alcohol or hanging with the wrong type of friends often begin to neglect their studies. Teens who have anxiety or depression may also neglect their studies.

It may be a call for help!

How to Help Your Troubled Teen

The good news is that many troubled teens overcome problems and grow into happy, successful adults. You should listen to what your teen has to say. One of the mistakes that parents make when they are confronting their troubled teen is doing all of the talking and not listening. You should also encourage your teen to accept responsibility for his or her own actions.

Counseling is another option that can help your troubled teen.  Your teen can talk openly to a counselor about the issues that are bothering him or her. Additionally, if your teen has an alcohol or drug addiction, then he or she should be enrolled in a rehab center.

About the Author:

Kaylee Wilson is a proud single mom and a professional writer. She currently contributes to The Family Compass, a center that brings together a vast collection of resources that will help families find their bearings.