The Green Bride: Getting Rid of Diamond Rings

I have been writing several reviews about expensive diamond engagement rings. It makes me wonder if it is really something that a commoner would wish to wear on her finger. Do you think it is even practical to wear one on your finger on a daily basis?

The Cost of Diamond Engagement Rings

Diamond Rings

At an average, a diamond engagement ring is expected to cost about $3500 to $4000, which is more than what an average worker earns in a month. For some, it is a form of investment, but let us do a little reality check here, will anyone intend to sell her diamond engagement ring unless she gets divorced? I haven’t heard of that in my lifestyle. Nevertheless, I have heard engagement rings being passed to the next generation just like what Kate Middleton currently owns. 

The Blood Diamond

You must have heard about Conflict Diamonds or Blood Diamonds. It hit the news after it has been revealed how African miners were exploited. It was even featured in the 1990’s film of Leondardo Di’ Caprio. The movie shed only a glimpse of the nightmare these miners experienced just to obtain this valuable gemstone. I wonder if women would be proud to wear a diamond ring on their finger realizing that it would probably come from one of the blood and sweat of these miners. I know that there are many mines in operation that do not practice the same, but the thought of being one of the reasons why some people in Africa died is something I wouldn’t want to become a symbol of our undying love.

Alternative Options for Diamond Engagement Rings

You may have noticed by now, that I am an advocate of the green lifestyle, so it wouldn’t be a surprise if I prefer eco-friendly engagement rings. Sure, these are cheaper in comparison to diamonds, but it makes me breathe better knowing that our symbol of love does not cause pain to any living creature.

Porcelain Rings

eco porcelain ring

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Wooden Rings

It may not look too elegant but it is a friendly reminder of your connection to nature. A few crafts men offer these in their shops including MnM Woodworks. The wood used comes from buried bogs, so you wouldn’t worry about trees being cut just for you to have these exotic engagement rings. You could use this as the band for your engagement ring and choose a gemstone that has been part of your family heirloom for a more meaningful ring on your finger.

an heirloom gemstone would do just fine

or combining diamond, wood, and titanium...

or have it custom made

Learn more about wooden rings and feel nature binding your love for one another in its smooth finish.

I wonder when I will be “green” bride, but when it happens then it would definitely be near the beach. I have no dreams of wearing a ring on my finger right now. I am enjoying my freedom and is very much satisfied with it.